Coping With a Defiant Child

At one point or another, all kids can be defiant, and remaining patient and calm can be a challenge for any parent. But, it’s important to remember that kids show their emotions through their behaviour – they’ll often show you something is wrong before they tell you something is wrong. Recently, I answered a question from Laura H. in Oakville about how to deal with her defiant 12 year old. To see my response, visit the Yummy Mummy Club.

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