As we celebrate our families this Thanksgiving, here are five techniques to be thankful for from the Connected Parenting book:
5. Saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Consistent limits give your child a sense of security. They know that someone is looking out for them.
4. Staying neutral. Staying neutral keeps a difficult situation from escalating, avoids rewarding bad behavior with negative attention, and allows you to think more clearly.
3. Connected play. Cuddling, looking into your child’s eyes, or looking at baby pictures with your child all cause your child’s brain to release endorphins, making them feel calm and happy.
2. Mirroring. Use the CALM method to connect with your child, match his affect, and really listen to what your child is trying to tell you to create genuine mirroring.
1. Making your child feel delicious. Most of all, be thankful for your wonderful child who loves you to pieces.