Jennifer Kolari Discusses Gladiator Children

This week at Kolari’s Corner on InfoMommy, Jennifer Kolari answers a reader’s question about her hyper 11-month-old boy. Jennifer calls children like this “gladiators.” They can be joyous, funny and imaginative but have trouble settling or knowing when enough is enough.

Jennifer advises staying neutral and letting your child know what you expect of them ahead of time. Adrenaline play such as wrestling and chasing games can help children release extra energy. Other tips include naming the behavior, setting limits and being consistent, and being sure to catch your child being good. Most importantly, parents should make sure they connect using empathy and play.

Read Jennifer’s full answer or check out her other advice at Kolari’s Corner.

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