Jennifer Kolari Discusses Whining

This week at Kolari’s Corner on InfoMommy, Jennifer Kolari answers a reader’s question about her 28-month-old daughter’s whining. Jennifer suggests making sure you are not ignoring or otherwise missing more appropriate attempts at communication, which can lead to an escalation of whining to get your attention. She advises using her CALM method, listening to your child and reflecting back what they are saying, to stop the whining. Then ask your child to repeat their request without whining and give lots of positive feedback. Read Jennifer’s full answer or check out her other advice at Kolari’s Corner.

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