“Have a teenager? Then I highly recommend this book. Jennifer Kolari’s CALM techniques to connect with your teen are not only simple but based on cutting-edge research.”
—Michele Borba, Ed.D., author of The Big Book of Parenting Solutions
“Jennifer Kolari provides us with a clear-minded view of how to create and continue an open, attuned relationship with our children while they move through important and at times tumultuous transition from childhood to adulthood called adolescence. You’re Ruining My Life!” (But Not Really): Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting is an accessible and often entertaining guide to understanding the importance of communication in the parent-child relationship and how changes in the teen’s brain can make loving, supportive connection difficult to maintain. Filled with practical steps and memorable stories, the insights of Kolari’s important book will help the busy parent both survive and thrive through these crucial and challenging times.”
– Daniel J. Siegel, M.D.
Co-Author, The Whole-Brain Child and Parenting from the Inside Out;
Author, Mindsight and The Developing Mind
Executive Director, Mindsight Institute
Clinical Professor, UCLA School of Medicine
“Kolari helps parents understand complicated teen brain chemistry and offers practical parenting advice that is respectful and effective.”
—Alyson Schafer, author of Honey I Wrecked the Kids
“I will never forget the telephone conversation when Jennifer Kolari told me with great excitement that she had discovered—to her surprise! —that her technique of Connected Parenting worked, not just for young children for whom she had originally developed it, but that it was extraordinarily successful for teenagers as well.
The result of this discovery is You’re Ruining my Life!, an indispensable guide for parents who may need more than intuition to help their teenagers thrive in an often challenging phase of development.”
—Dr. Till Davy, Honorary Consultant, The Hospital for Sick Children, Toronto
“Connected parenting works! This is more than a book on parenting, it is a blueprint for understanding healthy communication for all relationships! These techniques have become a way of life for our family and have helped me both professionally and as a parent. It will change your life for the better!”
—Dr.Sue Ball, Ph.D., C. Psych.
“You’re Ruining My Life! provides impressive guidance for parents of challenging children. With great kindness and compassion and wonderful clarity she helps parents to organize their responses and reconnect to their teens in ways that that will give them renewed hope.”
—Howard Glasser, author of Transforming the Difficult Child