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Connected Parenting™ Podcast 🎙️
with Jennifer Kolari

4.8 • 185 Ratings
Top 1% Podcast
Over 1,500,000 listens
Each Week, We Share Science-Backed Techniques on How to Parent Your Sensitive Children.

Less Arguments. More Empathy. Deeper Bonds.
Incredible
I can't say enough great things about this podcast and I pass it on to every other mom that I know. Thank you so much for helping me raise my children, you are giving such a gift by sharing your knowledge. I can't tell you how much I've learned...
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– Ellen Collind
Life Changing
I'm so thankful a friend recommended this podcast. I have never felt more seen as a parent of a gladiator and gifted kid while listening to this podcast! I have tried everything under the sun as a parent and for the first time in a long time have hope for the future as I parent my kids using the connected parenting methods. Thank you!!!!

– Alis Geor
Great Information
I have been telling everyone and anyone that will listen to try out these techniques. We have seen great strides with all our children. Such practical helpful advice.
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– Lea Schin
Episode #187
Sensory Play For Kids With Big Feelings | CP187

In this episode, I’ll share specific, playful strategies designed to calm and engage children who have these intense emotional needs. Through therapeutic play, we can offer them a safe way to discharge pent-up energy and reset their emotional state, creating moments of connection and calm that help them—and us—break out of negative cycles.

Episode #186
Be That - See That | CP186

In this episode of Connected Parenting, we’re diving into a fundamental concept in effective parenting—self-regulation. Titled “Be That to See That,” this episode explores the critical role our own emotional regulation plays in helping our children manage their emotions and behaviors.

Episode #184
Halloween Can Be Scary | CP184

For most kids Halloween and the time leading up to it can be really fun and they love it. But for a lot of very sensitive children the feelings and reactions can be quite the opposite and extremely anxiety provoking.

Episode #184
Emotional Glare | CP184

In this episode of Connected Parenting, I dive into a concept I call emotional glare—a phenomenon that every parent of a strong-willed, reactive child has likely experienced. If you have a sassy, feisty, gladiator child who seems to be in constant conflict with the world, you know exactly what I’m talking about.

Episode #183
The Power of Repair | CP183

In this episode, I share personal stories and practical advice on how embracing connected parenting as a philosophy—not just a strategy—builds trust and stability within families. I also explain how the Calm Technique allows you to develop emotional capital, so even when things go off track (as they sometimes will), you can always find your way back to connection.

Episode #182
Parenting with Love and Limits: Eli Harwood on Attachment and Empathy | CP182

Whether you’re a parent who already practices attachment or someone who is interested in learning more, this episode with special guest Eli Harwood will give you insights into how to build stronger relationships and foster emotional security in your family. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that blends real-life experiences with actionable advice.

Episode #181
Working With The Reticular Activation System (RAS) | CP181

In this episode, we’ll explore how the RAS filters information and determines what we pay attention to, how it influences our reality, and more importantly unlock the secrets of this powerful brain system and learn strategies to make it a positive force in your parenting journey!

Episode #180
Putting Kids In The Middle | CP180

Join me as we look at how to protect your kids from being caught in the crossfire of adult disputes while fostering a more positive family dynamic.

Episode #179
Parents of Gladiator Kids | CP179

In this episode of Connected Parenting, we’re diving deep into the world of gladiator kids—those feisty, strong-willed, and intensely challenging children who push back at every turn.

Episode #178
[REPLAY] 20 Seconds Of Courage | CP178

In this episode, we dive into the importance of strengthening this 'courage muscle' in children, especially those who are hesitant to take risks. We'll explore strategies to support them in trying new things, discovering joy, and overcoming their fears.

Episode #177
[REPLAY] When Your Child Has No Friends | CP177

Seeing your child start school without friends, feeling isolated and disconnected, is incredibly tough as a parent. It’s easy to feel helpless, but there are steps you can take to empower your child and guide them through this challenging time.Let’s explore how you can support your child, manage your own emotions, and help create a positive path forward together.

Episode #176
[REPLAY] Back To School | CP176

Join me today as we explore tips and strategies to help our kids navigate the the start back to school.

Episode #175
[REPLAY] Yelling | CP175

In this episode, I uncover the 'why' behind our shouting tendencies, the real impact it has on our little ones (hint: it's not good), and most importantly, what we can do instead.

Episode #174
The "Good" Kid | CP174

In this episode of Connected Parenting, I discuss the dynamics of the "good child" in families where a sibling—often a more challenging "gladiator child"—demands most of the parental attention.

Episode #173
Bedtime Routine For Parents | CP173

In this episode, I'm shifting the focus from parenting techniques to self-care for parents, specifically exploring bedtime and morning routines. Take control of your routines to reduce stress and create a positive atmosphere for your families.

Episode #172
A Parent's Guide to Strong-Willed Kids with a Former Nurse & Nutrition Expert | CP172

Today, we're excited to feature Bethany_Gettis, a former weight loss and health nurse turned certified holistic Nutritional Consultant and founder of Nutritious and Delicious.In this episode, we tackle common questions about food pickiness, mealtime battles, and the importance of prioritizing your own needs to better care for your family.

Episode #171
Middle Schoolers & Makeup | CP171

Are you looking for ways to approach the topic of makeup with empathy, balance, and understanding, while providing guidance on setting boundaries without shaming or embarrassing your child? Tune in for practical advice on navigating the makeup years with your teenage daughters.

Episode #170
Parental Screen Time | CP170

In this episode, we dive into the significant impact of screen time on kids, focusing on a crucial but often overlooked aspect: parental screen time.

Episode #169
How To Connect With Your Grumpy Teen | CP169

Tune in as we explore strategies to bridge the gap and foster a strong, supportive relationship with your teen, even when they seem to be shutting you out.

Episode #168
It's Summertime | CP168

In this week's episode we say goodbye to hectic schedules and explore how to make this summer as wonderful, connected, and fun as possible for you and your family.

Episode #167
How To Get Your Spouse On Board | CP167

In this episode, we’ll explore strategies to help your spouse understand and embrace the Connected Parenting approach, ensuring a cohesive and supportive parenting team.

Episode #166
[REPLAY] All Things Dad a Conversation with Barrett Kolari | CP166

In today's episode, we're diving into the world of fatherhood—the struggles, the joys, and the unique challenges that dads face.

Episode #165
Exploring Developmental Trauma Solutions with Expert Laurie Couture | CP165

Today, I'm excited to share an insightful conversation with Laurie Couture, a licensed mental health counselor, author, and developer of the Couture Protocol. Laurie specializes in childhood development, trauma, and attachment, providing crucial guidance to families and professionals serving children and youth. Join us as we dig into her groundbreaking approach to treating developmental and generational trauma and discuss how we can nurture and empower our children through holistic mental health practices.

Episode #164
Awe & Wonder | CP164

In today's podcast, we'll delve into the transformative power of wonder and awe—emotions that children embrace naturally but adults often overlook as they grow older.

Episode #263
The ReProgram with Ann Odom | CP163

In this episode, I’m excited to share a special conversation I had with Ann Odom on her podcast, "The Reprogram" about somatic healing and inner child work.

Episode #162
Q&A Sibling Resentment | CP162

This episode is a must-listen for any parent grappling with the complexities of sibling relationships and are seeking to create a more harmonious home environment.

Episode #161
The Gift of Self-Awareness | CP160

In today's episode, we're diving into an essential topic: self-awareness and how we, as parents, can gift to our children this crucial skill for fostering good mental health, strong social skills, and building resilience as they navigate the complexities of growing up.

Episode #160
Separation Anxiety | CP160

Separation anxiety can be a really hard thing for kids and if you can relate then join me for today's discussion; where we talk about separation anxiety in our children and what you can do to help support them.

Episode #159
[REPLAY] The CALM Technique Review With Zoe | CP159

Today, we’re revisiting a fan-favorite episode, featuring a special session with my daughter Zoe on the CALM technique.

Episode #158
Childhood Rewired | CP158

Join me as we explore strategies for helping teens take charge of their screen use and discuss ways parents can maintain sanity while effectively guiding their children through the digital age.

Episode #157
How To Be a Frontal Lobe | CP157

Today we are diving into the idea that as parents, we're essentially acting as substitute frontal lobes for our children.

Episode #155
Grandparents: A Special Bond | CP155

Join me today to explore the richness of our relationship with grandparents, examining the contrast between modern parenting and the practices of their era, and together let's discover ways to navigate these differences for a more harmonious family dynamic.

Episode #155
Why Won't My Kids Just Listen? | CP155 Scheduled

If you find yourself repeating instructions endlessly without any response, you're not alone. In this week's episode we explore the reasons behind this common parenting challenge and offer a treasure trove of tips and tricks to turn the tide.

Episode #154
Navigating the Sometimes Very Tricky World of Highly Sensitive Kids & Food with Katie Kimball | CP154

In this special guest series episode, I am thrilled to welcome Katie Kimball, a renowned advocate for healthy kids cooking and founder of the Kids Cook Real Food eCourse.

Episode #153
How To Handle Divorce With Kids | CP153

Join me as we explore strategies for navigating divorce, aiming to minimize its impact on the youngest members of the family.

Episode #152
Blended Family | CP152

From practical advice on fostering harmony and understanding to creative strategies for bonding, this week's release is tailored to address the unique challenges and opportunities that come with blending families together.

Episode #151
Messy Rooms Teen Edition | CP151

Have you been struggling with your teenager's messy room and not sure how to handle it? In this week's episode I've got some insights on what the messy room really means for your teen and strategies to help manage it in a way that supports their mental well-being. Join me!!

Episode #150
Embracing Love as a Lifestyle: Practical Tips for a Warmer, More Loving February | CP150

As we embrace the month of love, February, we're going beyond the usual hearts, cards, and candies that adorn the stores. Let's explore how we can infuse our family life with the essence of love, making it the central theme not just for this month but as a foundational principle in our every day.

Episode #149
Messy Rooms | CP149

Join me as we explore strategies to encourage our little ones to keep their spaces relatively tidy. From understanding why their rooms end up looking like a mini tornado passed through, to practical tips and tricks that can make tidying up a less daunting task for them (and less of a headache for us).

Episode #148
Embracing Change and Sensitivity in Kids and Teens Q&A | CP148

If you're curious about nurturing a supportive environment that fosters resilience and emotional intelligence in your sensitive child or teen, this episode is a must-listen.

Episode #147
20 Seconds Of Courage | CP147

In this episode, we explore the importance of building this 'courage muscle' in children, especially those who aren't natural risk-takers. We'll discuss strategies to support them in trying new things, experiencing the joy of discovery, and the satisfaction of overcoming fears.

Episode #146
Holistic Healing: Dr. Omid Naim's Journey Beyond Traditional Psychiatry | CP146

So what does a more holistic approach to psychiatry look like? How can addressing family trauma transform our mental health? Why is the sense of community so critical for this journey? Join Dr. Omid Naim as we delve into these questions and more ...This episode is not just a dialogue; it's a journey towards understanding the deeper facets of mental well-being and how they affect us and our family's.

Episode #145
[REPLAY] Gifted Kids | CP145

Are you curious about the signs of giftedness and how recognizing these traits could help your child's development? If so, join me for this episode as we unravel the struggles and potential hidden talents of the gifted child!

Episode #144
[REPLAY] Healthy Adversity | CP144

How does facing something painful, difficult, or seemingly impossible help them grow? What happens when a child learns that they can overcome an obstacle that initially felt insurmountable? This kind of resilience-building is key to their development. If you're curious about how to help your child navigate and learn from life's lesser hardships, effectively preparing them for bigger challenges, this episode is for you.

Episode #143
[REPLAY] Big Hurts & Little Hurts | CP143

I believe that shielding children from every hurt and disappointment does more harm than good. The ability to handle life's troubles, be it breakups, not making a team, or job rejections, develops through experience. So, how do we ensure our children are developing this vital resilience? Find out in this week's episode.

Episode #142
Pathological Demand Avoidance | CP142

What exactly is pathological demand avoidance, how does it manifest in kids and could your child be showing signs of it? Let's unravel these mysteries together. Tune in to gain insights and perhaps, understand your little gladiator a bit better!

Episode #141
[REPLAY] Yelling | CP141

In this episode, I uncover the 'why' behind our shouting tendencies, the real impact it has on our little ones (hint: it's not good), and most importantly, what we can do instead.

Episode #140
Sixty Thousands Thoughts | CP140

Picture this: an average of 60,000 thoughts flow through our heads every day. But here's the catch – a whopping 75-80% of them are negative.Today we are diving into the fascinating world of thought hygiene.

Episode #138
The Freeze Response | CP138

We've previously discussed the fight and flight responses, but the freeze response is equally important and often less understood. In this episode, we'll be exploring what's happening inside the brain when this response kicks in.Whether you're a parent of a child, teenager, or young adult, or you're just curious about the inner workings of the human brain, this discussion has something for everyone.So, what exactly occurs during the freeze response? Tune in to find out!

Episode #137
[REPLAY] The Importance of Self Parenting | CP137

Self-compassion and loving self-parenting are critical to good mental health and help us be better parents to our children. Join me for some insight and tips on how we ensure we are making these kinds of steps for ourselves.